Your mentee has made contact, your first meeting is scheduled. This is the start of your relationship – now is the time to prepare for being a mentor. You can do so by attending the MCI Webinar “Being an MCI Mentor” (or watching the recording if you can’t attend) and to familiarize yourself with various mentoring skills. These include active listening, building trust, helping the mentee define goals, and conveying encouragement and inspiration.
Apart from getting to know your mentee, your first meeting is about agreeing on the organizational framework of your mentoring relationship (frequency & location of meeting, etc.). Use the mentoring contract to prepare for these aspects. In your first meeting, you will go through this with your mentee and agree on one common version, which you both sign.
You are also encouraged to start using your Mentoring Diary right from the start.
This first phase is fundamental in getting off to a good start, so it is worth investing some time and effort now – it will pay off later.